Reflections on Life's Journey
My insights, now that I turned…
Wow, I can't believe how fast time flies—last week marked 45 trips around the Sun. The last decade has been profoundly transformative; while my 30s brought substantial growth and expansion, my 40s feel more aligned with my true self. I learned much about myself as a human being and a badass' eternal sparkle of light'. Along the way, I've made some discoveries, had some epiphanies, mastered some lessons, and am still learning others… Here we go:
- Life is a journey of ups and downs, a spectrum of joy, happiness, and bliss intertwined with sorrow, disappointments, pain, and loss. 
- I discovered/remembered a personal connection to Source/God/force/energy. 
- Once you embark on conscious awakening, there is no going back; life takes on a radical shift. 
- As you grow, expand, and explore spirituality and your divinity, be prepared to be judged and thought of as crazy. 
- Convincing someone of ‘your truth’ is pointless; it’s a battle you can’t win, nor should you want to. 
- Sharing parts of oneself is beautiful, yet be discerning who you share it with. Not everyone is ready for what you’ve got to offer. 
- Not everyone is going to like you; make peace with that. 
- No need to prove anything to anyone. 
- Don’t take things personally. 
- Your life path doesn’t need to be validated by the outside world. (but your ego may want it). 
- You are a unique expression of Source physicalized, a gift to life itself; honor it; don’t try to imitate someone else. 
- Please stop trying to fix others; it’s not your job; it’s a dysfunctional pattern that needs healing. 
- The quieter the mind, the more subtle information available. 
- Learning to trust intuition/gut feeling is an ongoing and ever-expanding process. 
- My most significant investment was taking care of the body like a boss. 
- Connection to nature, animals, and elementals deepens the more you engage with it. 
- As the heart heals, you sense, feel, and empathize more; you become more loving & psychic. 
- I got much better at discerning what belongs to me or someone else’s. 
- Learning to flow with life more instead of trying to force it; forcing outcomes leads to unnecessary struggle. 
- Observation, introspection, and the art of listening go a long way. 
- The simplest of things bring the most joy. 
- Love is a state of being. 
- Relationships need nurturing, but not all are going to last forever. 
- Forgiveness frees us from bondage. 
- ‘Letting go’ makes room for newness to enter your life. 
- People come into your life for a reason and leave for a reason, too, so let them. 
- Vibes/energy reflects the inner state; words aren’t always aligned. 
- It takes a lot of courage and inner work to be unapologetically authentic. 
- Dreams offer guidance and insights through metaphors and symbols; I frequently ask for answers before bed. 
- Shoveling emotional pain under the carpet doesn’t make it disappear; it only makes the pile more significant and can trip you up much more quickly. 
- The critical voice in your mind that sabotages, constantly criticizes, and stops you in your tracks is not even your voice. 
- When drama presents itself, ‘non-engagement’ is preferred. 
- Bless people; even if you don’t know them, send them love. 
- Know when to keep your mouth shut, mainly when triggered; not all words need to be spoken aloud. 
- We communicate energetically 24/7; be mindful of what you’re sending out; that energy will return to your field. 
- Everything you ingest and surround yourself influences your state of being. 
- We all have an internal guidance system, an inner compass pointing to the true north. 
- Care and nurture yourself on all levels; it’s an act of compassion and self-love. 
- Smile and laugh more; it’s ok to be silly. 
- Animal companions can be part of your Soul group; you can communicate with them from the other side, just like humans. 
- Holding another being in your arms when they are crossing over the rainbow bridge is a life-altering event. 
- We are all interconnected. 
- The more balanced, integrated, and healthy you are on all levels, the better for the well-being of the human collective. 
- The soul is eternal. 
- The past is a collection of memories, and the future is a realm of possibilities. Learn to be present in the here and now. 

 
      